Paul Fitzsimons

Paul Fitzsimons

CBT
Naas • Online • Accredited
€70 • 60 min
Response time: under 24 hours

About

I'm a fully qualified and accredited CBT therapist based in Ireland, offering online sessions to adults nationwide.

I work with a wide range of common mental health concerns, including:

Anxiety (generalised, social, panic, health anxiety)

Depression and low mood

Trauma (including PTSD and complex trauma)

Work-related stress and burnout

Relationship difficulties

Low self-esteem and confidence issues

Grief and loss

Life transitions and adjustment difficulties

My approach

I use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), which is a practical, evidence-based approach. CBT helps you understand how your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours are connected – and gives you tools to break unhelpful patterns.

I also integrate trauma-informed principles into my work. This means I pay attention to how past experiences might be affecting your present, and we move at a pace that feels safe for you.

Qualifications

BSc in Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy

MA in Addiction Recovery

Specialist Certificate in CBT

Specialist Certificate in Trauma-Informed Therapy

I am fully insured and follow IACP ethical guidelines.

How online therapy works

Sessions are 50 minutes via secure video link. You don't need to travel or sit in a waiting room. You just need a private space and an internet connection. I offer flexible hours, including evenings.

Getting started

I offer a free 15-minute consultation. It's a no-pressure chance for you to ask questions, see if we're a good fit, and decide if you'd like to book a first session.

If you're tired of anxiety, low mood, or stress calling the shots, reach out. You don't have to figure this out alone.

Issues I work with

Anger Anxiety Bereavement & grief Burnout Depression OCD Panic attacks Relationships Self-esteem Sleep problems Stress management Trauma Behavioural Therapy CBT Cognitive therapy Counselling Exposure therapy Integrative Counselling Integrative Therapist Meditation Person-centered therapy Post Traumatic Stress Disorder Psychotherapeutic Counsellor Psychotherapy Solution-focused brief therapy

Can Assist with

Difficulty Controlling Anger Passive aggressive behaviour Financial Stress Family communication issues Blended families issues Grief and Loss Chronic illness or disability Obsessive compulsive disorders Low Self esteem Personality disorders Divorce or separation Parenting chalenges Marital or Couples Conflict Schizophrenia Post traumatic stress disorder Career indecision Mental Health Issues Relationship and Family Issues Stress and Coping Self-Identity and Self-Esteem Trauma and Abuse Academic Pressure Career and Academic Concerns Existential and Spiritual Concerns Anger Management Crisis Intervention Childhood Trauma Physical, sexual, or emotional abuse Domestic violence Sexual Assault Witnessing traumatic events Intermittent explosive Disorder Relationship conflicts issues Depression Anxiety Bipolar Disorder Work Related Stress Coping with life transitions (e.g., relocation, career changes) Job Related Stress Burnout Academic underachievement Time management issues Test Anxiety Identity exploration (e.g, sexual orientation, gender identity) Body image issues Imposter syndrome Cultural or racial identity conflicts Suicidal ideation or self-harm Emotional breakdowns Immediate trauma response Sudden Loss or Bereavement Meaninglessness or existential crises Spirituality exploration Loss of faith or spiritual crisis Moral or ethical dilemmas

Insurance

OBF

Qualifications & Experience

Qualification BSc Integrative Counselling – Person-Centred, Choice Theory/Reality Therapy, Integrative approaches

MA in Addiction Recovery – Underlying patterns, relapse prevention, recovery models

Specialist Cert in CBT – Evidence-based techniques for anxiety, depression, trauma

Specialist Cert in Trauma-Informed Therapy – Safe, paced trauma work

Fully insured | IACP ethical guidelines | Ongoing CPD
Experience
4+ years in CBT
Private Practice Experience

I have worked with adults in private practice settings, providing one-to-one CBT and integrative counselling. In this role, I have supported clients presenting with:

Anxiety disorders (generalised anxiety, social anxiety, panic disorder, health anxiety)

Depression and persistent low mood

Trauma (including single-incident and complex trauma)

Work-related stress and burnout

Relationship difficulties

Low self-esteem and confidence issues

Grief and loss

Life transitions (career change, retirement, separation, bereavement)

My approach in private practice is collaborative and client-led. I work with each client to identify their goals and tailor CBT techniques to their specific needs.

Employee Assistance Programme (EAP) Experience

I have also worked with clients through Employee Assistance Programme (EAP) services. This setting taught me to work effectively within brief, solution-focused frameworks while maintaining high standards of confidentiality and professionalism.

In EAP work, I supported employees across various industries with:

Workplace stress and burnout

Anxiety related to performance or job security

Work-life balance difficulties

Conflict with colleagues or managers

Personal issues affecting work (relationship difficulties, financial stress, health concerns)

This experience gave me a deep understanding of workplace dynamics and the importance of practical, time-sensitive interventions.
Approach I draw from several therapeutic approaches to meet each client where they are.

Person-Centred Therapy

At the core of my work is the belief that you are the expert on your own life. I am not here to diagnose, label, or tell you what to do. Instead, I offer three conditions that research shows are essential for therapeutic change:

Unconditional positive regard – I accept you as you are, without judgment. There is nothing you can share that will shock me or make me think less of you.

Empathy – I work hard to truly understand your experience from your perspective, not mine.

Congruence – I am genuine and honest with you. I do not hide behind a professional mask or use jargon to create distance.

This means our work together is collaborative. You set the pace. You decide what feels important to talk about. I am here to walk alongside you, not to lead from the front.

Choice Theory

Choice Theory is based on a simple but powerful idea: all behaviour is an attempt to meet one of five basic needs:

Survival (safety, food, shelter, health)

Love and belonging

Power and achievement

Freedom and autonomy

Fun and enjoyment

When you feel anxious, depressed, or stuck, it is often because one or more of these needs is not being met in the way you would like. Together, we can explore:

What do you really want (not what you should want)?

What are you currently doing to get it?

Is it working?

What could you do differently?

Choice Theory shifts the focus from "What is wrong with me?" to "What do I need, and how can I get it?" This is empowering and practical.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

CBT is the practical, evidence-based backbone of my work. Once we understand what you need (through a Person-Centred and Choice Theory lens), CBT gives you the tools to get there.

CBT helps you see how your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours are connected. For example:

Thought: "I'm going to mess this up."

Feeling: Anxious, panicked.

Behaviour: Avoid the situation entirely.

Result: Short-term relief, long-term reinforcement of the fear.

By identifying and gently challenging unhelpful patterns, you can learn to respond differently. This is not about "positive thinking" – it is about realistic thinking that actually helps you live the life you want.

Trauma-Informed Principles

I also integrate trauma-informed principles into all my work. This means I assume that any client may have a history of trauma, and I shape my approach accordingly:

Safety first – We go at your pace. You are always in control.

Trust and transparency – You will know exactly what we are doing and why.

Choice and collaboration – You decide what we work on. Nothing is mandatory.

Empowerment – The goal is not just symptom reduction. It is helping you feel capable and in charge of your own life.

Fees & Availability

Standard 60-minute sessions are €70.

Phone

Available on call

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